16 A Secret Sauce

My Human Capital Traits

1. I think I am an extremely creative human. My mind is always humming with things to do, start or create. I love to do creative activities and just think outside the box. I feel like this is a skill that's necessary in any career or aspect of life. 
2. I believe I have really good work ethic. I've been working since the age of 12 at my parents restaurant, and ever since I have developed a pride in everything I work on. I feel like it's a reflection of myself, so when I work on things I'm passionate (or not passionate) about, I make sure I do the best I can.
3. I'm extremely persistent. When I want something, I get it, and when I don't get it, I try harder to get it. I don't give up easily, and better yet, I rarely get discouraged. If I do, I reset for a second, and then go at the problem with even more vigor. 
4. I'm enthusiastic. Everybody that is friends or works with me lets me know that they love my optimism. I try to always bring a light-heartedness to everything I do, and it's refreshing when you meet somebody that is passionate about succeeding, and yet very happy at the same time.
5. I love to write. I enjoy writing about my experiences, life, and just stories in general. I want to write more, to strengthen this skill and create things that people enjoy.

What other people said about my Human Capital:

1. I interviewed my dad first. He told me if one thing were to stand apart about me, it would be my work hard, play hard mentality. He said he loves that I work so hard and yet still have time to do the things I'm passionate about. He stated that if you keep that skill throughout your life, you'll be golden. Furthermore, he also said that my ability to love is contagious. He said that whenever I walk in, I light up the room with my love and enthusiasm for everything.

This was very insightful to me, especially from my dad, who is one of my role models. This advice will help me guide my future towards my skills and emotions.

1. Next I interviewed my mom. She told me she always loves to see me, because my humor and personality are extremely enticing to be around. She said she misses when I leave, because a certain enthusiasm is out of her life for a bit. She also told me (as she was my manager for a while) that my ability to work hard will greatly assist me in this world.

My mom is full of wisdom, so this is helpful. She can see more emotional aspects of me.

1. After, I interviewed my brother. He said that my ability to talk to other people, strangers or friends, is very useful. He said that I can talk to anyone and make them feel welcomed, and my ability to make friends so quickly is admirable. He also stated that whenever I'm in a room, I can always lighten the mood and make people feel warm and invited.

My brother rarely gives me compliments, so in this instance, it must mean that this skill is very good and prevalent. Definitely something I can work on.

1. I also interviewed my sister. She told me that my creativity is unmatched. She kept saying that I always have the craziest ideas, dreams, anecdotes and everything in-between. She also said that my persistence makes for a good combination with my creativity, and that anything I set my mind on will be somewhat of a success. She said that I may not be the smartest guy in the room, but my enthusiasm, social skills and creative nature make up for it in bounds.

My sister is one of the smartest people I know. She told me that my creativity and persistence is key, so I will definitely take that to heart.

1. Finally, I interviewed a good friend of mine. He said that we've been friends for so long because of my ability to be nice and always try to lighten up the mood. He said that I fit all the parts of a good friend, whether that being the class clown, or someone who wants to hear you and help you feel emotionally fulfilled. He said my spirit overall is just fun to be around.

My good friend has known me for so long, so it's helpful to see why we've been friends for so long. It also helps me understand how to keep making meaningful connections.

Analysis

When I think of what others think of me,  I usually think of my skills- whether that be my creativity, writing or speaking skills. However, after analyzing what my family and friends said, I have to admit that most people love and are attracted to me because of my personality. As a nice, funny and enthusiastic guy, I tend to be the center of attention and love to make people feel good. I always noticed that I did that, but I never thought people enjoyed and valued it as much as they do. If I could make corrections to my first list, I would move some items around, so people knew how valuable my enthusiasm and spirit is to have around, not just my skills.